Dorm Room Drama 1
One of the most important parts of moving out and going to college is being able to live, essentially, on your own but with a roommate. Now I was thrilled for this when moving out to California. I didn't know much about my first roommate but I knew the fact that she was a very private person, couldn't change in front of others and yet I am the absolute opposite. I have no problem changing in front of other people. But once I finally did get out here, I learn what type of a private person that she was. She had gotten to our room a day before I did so she had rearranged the room the way she wanted it and hung up a large black curtain across the room. Now this was a problem because our rooms aren't very big. It's tiny, so fucking small like two people shouldn't be allowed to live in this small of space especially because you have no idea if you two are going to get along or not. You are a stranger to your roommate and vice versa.
Once I finally met her and all of my stuff was in our room. I discovered that she really didn't want a roommate and she was trying to shove me into the kitchen. It was uncomfortable and my down comforter was white so being shoved into the kitchen was not okay with me. So I went to talk to the housing director and asked what my options were. She told me there was another girl that she was thinking of placing me with but thought I was a better fit with the first girl. But there was a problem with the whole situation, I had discovered that she didn't really want a roommate and that if it didn't work out after the first semester then I would have to move out. Now, like what the. Why would I move all of my stuff into a room for 3 months only to have to move out and into a room with someone who had already started their life here and had everything where they wanted it. It not only would have disrupted their life but my own.
So instead of living with the first girl, I switched into the other girls room and well shit really hit the fan with that one. It started out fine but I recognized many traits that she had with previous friends I had.
Once I finally met her and all of my stuff was in our room. I discovered that she really didn't want a roommate and she was trying to shove me into the kitchen. It was uncomfortable and my down comforter was white so being shoved into the kitchen was not okay with me. So I went to talk to the housing director and asked what my options were. She told me there was another girl that she was thinking of placing me with but thought I was a better fit with the first girl. But there was a problem with the whole situation, I had discovered that she didn't really want a roommate and that if it didn't work out after the first semester then I would have to move out. Now, like what the. Why would I move all of my stuff into a room for 3 months only to have to move out and into a room with someone who had already started their life here and had everything where they wanted it. It not only would have disrupted their life but my own.
So instead of living with the first girl, I switched into the other girls room and well shit really hit the fan with that one. It started out fine but I recognized many traits that she had with previous friends I had.
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